Alright the first thing to do is to go to the Profile section and fill in as much info as you can both in both sections – "About You" and "About Your Perfect Match".
Next add a photo in the Photo Tab. Then update your Location in that tab.
After that you can come back here and add your Status Message and turn on Match options in the MatchBox to reveal your Sparks (what we call matches) in the SparkBox. Then you can ‘Ignite’ those you like and ‘Extinguish’ those you don’t! Once you both have Ignited each other the Spark will move to the Ignited tab. From there you can click on the Spark to reveal that person's full Profile. You can then chat. So get on with it!
Whoa there! Have you filled in your profile yet? You won't get any Sparks until you've filled out the 'About You' and 'About Your Perfect Match' fields under the Profile tab and uploaded a Photo. Once that's sorted, come back here and activate these Match icons.
Bonus points for making the first move! If it's mutual and they Ignite you, the Spark will move to the 'Ignited' tab where you can view their full profile.